recently, my colleague told me about this interesting museum:
A museum dedicated to broken hearts has recently been founded in Croatia. Author's of the concept Olinka Vištica and Drazen Grubišić decided to set up the museum after consoling friends over their failed romances.The museum has everything from romantic and touching letters to different gifts given to lovers like teddy bears and photos, but also such unusual examples as leg prothesis donated by a war veteran who fell in love with his physiotherapist or a gall stone. Every single object on display is anonymous, and has a short description of the item related to the relationship that was behind.
also recently, i learnt a lot from one of my friend's breakup. i shall summarise them as follows:
1) a couple should be honest with each other right from the start. tell him/her if one day, you start to lose that 'feeling of love' for the other, cos you may (i) find ways to find back that love early, (ii) assess together whether you two should continue on while it's still early - don't waste your partner's time!
2) always keep the relationship alive! be it doing new things together from time to time.. or communicating, or..... the possibilities are endless.
3) as much as u wanna tie him/her down to yourself, u should not rein in too tight, cos it'll either suffocate him/her, or you'll feel like crashing when he/she's gone.
do all these make sense? anyway, may time heal all broken hearts fast!
PS: no, it doesn't refer to u, dear... just found this bumper sticker funnie enough to post! =P
recently, my colleague told me about this interesting museum:
A museum dedicated to broken hearts has recently been founded in Croatia. Author's of the concept Olinka Vištica and Drazen Grubišić decided to set up the museum after consoling friends over their failed romances.The museum has everything from romantic and touching letters to different gifts given to lovers like teddy bears and photos, but also such unusual examples as leg prothesis donated by a war veteran who fell in love with his physiotherapist or a gall stone. Every single object on display is anonymous, and has a short description of the item related to the relationship that was behind.
also recently, i learnt a lot from one of my friend's breakup. i shall summarise them as follows:
1) a couple should be honest with each other right from the start. tell him/her if one day, you start to lose that 'feeling of love' for the other, cos you may (i) find ways to find back that love early, (ii) assess together whether you two should continue on while it's still early - don't waste your partner's time!
2) always keep the relationship alive! be it doing new things together from time to time.. or communicating, or..... the possibilities are endless.
3) as much as u wanna tie him/her down to yourself, u should not rein in too tight, cos it'll either suffocate him/her, or you'll feel like crashing when he/she's gone.
do all these make sense? anyway, may time heal all broken hearts fast!
PS: no, it doesn't refer to u, dear... just found this bumper sticker funnie enough to post! =P
lessons from breakups
PS: no, it doesn't refer to u, dear... just found this bumper sticker funnie enough to post! =P
